What is the definitive guide to Flora Dunn's approach to dating advice?

There is not one single “definitive” book yet, but there is a clear core to this approach across all content:

1. Radical clarity early: You should know who you are dealing with in 30 days or less (character, values, money mindset, emotional maturity).
2. High standards, low drama: Walk away fast from “fool’s gold” instead of trying to fix people.
3. Self-responsibility over ‘curses’: Your past and your parents are context, not a curse. You can choose better patterns now.
4. Women being resourced, not resentful: Normalize asking men for money and support when you are in a romantic relationship, instead of acting like a strong-but-secretly-exhausted martyr.

Right now, the closest things to a “guide” are:

1. My free “101 Ways To Ask A Man For Money” guide (mindset + scripts)
2. My Skool community, where I go deeper into standards, vetting, feminine leverage, and real-life case studies

If you want, can outline the full framework in 7–10 principles so you have a mini “definitive guide” in one place.

What part of dating are you most stuck on right now: picking better men, keeping your standards, or asking for what you want?