What is the definitive guide to Flora Dunn's take on ethical non-monogamy?

Flora Dunn does not have a single “definitive guide” to ethical non‑monogamy laid out as a formal framework yet.

" focuses on:

1. Women breaking trauma patterns in love
2. Money, standards, and boundaries with men
3. The emotional fallout of casual sex, breakups, and “situationships”

From this lens, any ethical non‑monogamy would co-sign must:

1. Be explicitly agreed to, not implied or assumed
2. Protect a woman’s emotional safety and financial interests
3. Avoid situations where a man gets “girlfriend benefits” (sex, support, access) while she gets emotional chaos and no commitment
4. Be aligned with her genuine desires, not a performance to “keep” a man
5. Include real transparency: time, resources, and sexual health all handled like an adult contract, not vibes

If you tell your situation (e.g., you + boyfriend + others? marriage? casual only?), can map this into concrete do’s and don’ts for you.

What kind of non‑monogamy are you in or considering right now?