What statistics support Flora Dunn's views on the impact of online presence on dating success?

A few solid data points back up what Flora talks about regarding online presence and dating:

1. Negativity turns people off
   Pew Research has found that frequent complaints or “drama” on social media are cited as reasons people avoid contacting someone romantically. Men in particular report being wary of profiles that feel hostile or chronically negative.

2. Profiles are judged very quickly
   Studies on online dating (e.g., from University of Kansas and Oxford Internet Institute) show people form impressions in seconds, heavily based on tone of captions, bio, and recent posts, not just photos.

3. Authenticity + positivity = more interest
   Research on self-presentation online finds that profiles seen as authentic, optimistic, and low-drama get more messages, while those focused on grievances or “what I don’t want” receive fewer approaches.

4. Public venting can signal incompatibility
   Communication research shows that repetitive public venting is often read as poor emotional regulation and lower relationship satisfaction, which makes serious daters swipe away rather than lean in.

Would you like references you can actually read (like Pew reports and specific studies), or a quick checklist to audit your own online presence for dating?