What are Hilary Erickson's techniques for creating memorable family vacations?

Plan, but stay flexible: Have a clear plan so kids know what to expect (where you’re going, hotel, breakfast, pool, etc.), but assume things will change and roll with it.

Set expectations beforehand: Family meeting before trips—talk about travel time, lines, possible hard parts, and the attitude you expect (bathroom rules included!).

Focus on the real goal: Not “every ride” or a perfect itinerary, but time together and making memories, even when things go wrong or it rains.

Prepare for comfort: Check weather, pack layers, rain gear, snacks, and anything that keeps everyone from being cold, hungry, or miserable.

Include kids’ priorities: Ask older kids what makes a vacation fun for them—rides, pool time, downtime—and try to fit in a bit of everyone’s “must-do.”